An alpha female can intimidate some boys, but she won’t intimidate a man. In fact, men are attracted to alpha females because they are independent rather than needy, ambitious rather than complacent and they tend to have their act together. Alpha Females also don’t tend to fake it, because they’ve already made it. She therefore won’t fake who she is to impress you – she’ll just be herself – and that’s the most attractive quality of all. Here are 8 reasons why men love dating alpha females:

1. She’s not fake

There’s nothing worse than dating a woman who puts on an act to get a man’s interest, or fakes who she is because she’s not confident in herself. With an alpha female, you never have to guess if she’s being herself, because she’s extremely upfront about who she is and what she’s all about. Alpha females are direct and straightforward in the way they communicate, which is refreshing to a man who’s used to passive women who beat around the bush.

2. She’s not clingy or needy

Clingy and needy women are an instant turn off. An alpha female is choosing to spend time with her man, but she by no means needs him. She doesn’t rely on her man for validation, attention or happiness. Her man therefore won’t feel smothered or trapped, and that’s a huge bonus of dating an alpha female.

3. She’s independent

An alpha female is usually financially independent, emotionally stable and has her sh*t together. Her independence is attractive, because it’s clear she has a life of her own and is simply making room for her man in that busy life.

4. She doesn’t act like a princess

Some women act like everything should be done for them, and expect to be doted on. Not alpha females, though. Alpha females handle sh*t themselves and they’re used to being independent, so they don’t actually like being doted on. Men appreciate this since the princess act gets old, fast.


5. She doesn’t do anything half-assed

Alpha women don’t half-ass things. They put effort into everything they do. This means that an alpha female won’t half-ass a relationship. She’ll put effort into making the relationship work, she’ll be an excellent communicator, and she’ll be extremely loyal.

6. She’s fearless

Alphas tend to be fearless and adventurous. She’s not prissy or afraid of spontaneous adventures. She’s brave, bold and confident. That’s what makes dating her fun, rather than boring. Alpha females get bored with the same old, same old. They crave new experiences, and they’ll expand their man’s horizons while they experience unique adventures together.

7. She’s confident

Confidence is one of the most attractive qualities a woman can possess, and alpha women have confidence nailed down. They exude a sexy confidence and they own who they are.

8. She motivates her man to be better and aim higher

Since alpha females are generally quite successful in their careers and in life, they’ll motivate their man to be better and aim higher. Alpha females are driven and ambitious, so they’ll bring out the ambitious side of their man. Every man wants to be a better man, and every man wants to improve himself. Some girlfriends won’t encourage their men to be better, but you can count on an alpha female to do this.


About The Author

Erica Majored in Psychology at UBC and has since followed her passion for writing and journalism. After working at one of the world's largest dating sites for a few years, she began contributing dating advice to publications such as Elite Daily, AskMen and Vancity Buzz. It wasn't long before she decided to start her own dating advice column, The Babe Report. The rest is history. Follow her on Instagram @ericaleighgordon or on Facebook at facebook.com/thebabereport

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